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Always in My Heart

LSD - panoramaThe following are excerpts from a story published in the December 2013 issue of Panorama, an Italian Canadian publication.

Always in my Heart

A successful children’s community project in Richmond Hill

Always in my Heart is a project inspired by Liliana Guadagnoli through a Self-Expression and Leadership Program that she is currently enrolled in. She is currently the Assistant to the Chair of the French Studies Department, York University, and a co-author of a collection of poems.

The basis of the project is to help children overcome the loss of a pet, toy, object, etc., with grace and ease. Children had a guided meditation, and afterwards drew what they experienced. On Sunday, December 16th this project came to life, with many participants between the ages of 5 and 16. A surprise twist to the event came when the facilitator, Maria Grazia Bevilacqua, asked the parents to participate.

The children were extremely receptive to the meditation and instructions, which were carried through easily. It was amazing to discover that all children had addressed various losses, from toys, pets, friend and loved ones, to have the ability to find in a short period of time the happy moment after the sad moment of the loss. What was also amazing was that parents were stuck in finding their happy moment  quickly after a loss.

What both children and adults got from this event was the ability to increase awareness of their personalities through the readings of the drawings executed by Bevilacqua. The purpose of the event was to teach the children to increase their awareness, so that they won’t get stuck in their future years, making decisions for themselves and following their true purpose, creating happy lives. The event was very successful and the atmosphere was joyful and peaceful.

Winter Winds 2 Mile Race Fulfills Dreams

The following report come from Ty Cucarola, who participated in the Self-Expression and Leadership Program in Atlanta.

LSD - boys and girlsI began the Self-Expression and Leadership Program knowing that we would have to complete a project. What I didn’t know was that over the course of the next six months that it would change my life forever.

At the first classroom session we were asked to begin to think of our idea and present it to Larry Grayson in the next couple weeks to determine if our project idea was acceptable. I first began to think about what I wanted my target community to be. We did a project at the bank with the Boys & Girls Club over the summer where we repurposed the outdoor playground to be more functional. I began to wonder how I could impact my community and what I could do to make a difference in kids’ lives.

I reflected upon my triathlon racing and running experiences and love for fitness, and thought about doing a running race for the kids in Huntsville, Alabama. My next step was to schedule a meeting with Patrick Wynn, CEO and Harold Weatherly, COO of the Boys & Girls Club of HSV.

The first day I met with Harold Weatherly, I told him about my idea of what I saw possible. I wanted to have the kids run a race, buy them all new running shoes, and provide a new opportunity for them.

He first asked me what company I was with. I told him my name and this was my idea and I wanted to make a difference in my community. He next asked me if I had a job, I told him yes I was a commercial banker in Huntsville. He couldn’t believe my idea or proposition. I asked him if he could help me with my vision and he was enrolled and inspired day one. Next we set up a meeting with CEO Patrick Wynn.

Patrick told me I was sent here by god because he told me last year he had an idea of doing a big running event for the Boys & Girls Club but life happened and he passed up on the idea. So I was sitting there a year later in his office and his seized this opportunity and we began day one.

I next thought about what new kind of experience I could provide for the kids that would get them excited and motivated. I contacted my friend Jason Miller in Atlanta and asked if he would donate an airplane ride to the two winners of the upcoming race in February. He told me that without a doubt he would support me. He also told me he was frustrated with his airplane situation, as the current people who he was renting it to weren’t taking great care of his plane. So this prompted him to take a look at other people who he could rent his airplane to while he wasn’t using it. He met Rohan, who is a 23 year old pilot who has been flying since he was 16 years old. He started a flying school that teaches kids ages 8-17 how to fly real airplanes in Atlanta. Jason immediately became excited and decided to allow Rohan to rent his plane for his business. With Jason’s involvement he helped to impact these kids lives forever by providing an amazing day filled with fun!

After I had his commitment to provide an airplane ride, Harold and I began going to the clubs. I presented my idea to the kids to see who was interested.  My first question was has anyone ever ran a race before? Almost no one raised their hands, then I asked, “ Have you ever raced your brother or sister before?” Everyone raised their hand.

I asked them next if they would be okay with getting some new running shoes for participating in a race. Every kid was super excited about the idea of new shoes.

My final question was to find out if anyone had ever flown in an airplane before. Out of over 100 kids that I talked to only one kid raised his hand. He told me he flew to Kansas City once to visit his dad. I asked him to tell me about his experience and everyone in the room was eager to listen to what he had to say. He remembered sitting by the window and getting his wings pin from the airline attendant. Every kid looked like they wanted an opportunity to fly.

So I asked if they wanted an opportunity to fly and everyone said yes. Then I gave them an option to sign up for the race. I had 20 kids sign up and we began having weekly practices at Butler High School in which we ran around a track and started running. On the first day we ran a mile, and we increased it by one mile each week over the course of the four week training program.

I also started raising money for the shoes we needed. First I donated ten pairs and got the fund kicked off. Then I asked a salon where I get my haircut called So Vain Salon in Huntsville. Owner Rebecca Miller and I are friends – she told me she would support me. Brooke Johnson Gumbert is my friend who cuts my hair, and she and her husband Jack also got involved. Dr. Jenny Johnson, a local orthodontist and Brooke’s sister, also very willingly donated money to support buying shoes. I was able to raise $1,500 to support buying new shoes for the kids at Shoe Carnival.

Each week at practice the kids would ask me when they were getting new shoes. I would tell them I hadn’t raised enough money.  The next week Jareesh a 14-year old freshman in high school told me ‘Mr. Ty I have a gift for you.’ He gave me a green rubber band and told me every time I looked at it he wanted me to remember we needed more money so we can get our shoes. That inspirited and motivated me to get the funds necessary to ensure I fulfilled what I told them.

So on the day of the race it was crazy with excitement. It was a race called Winter Winds race. They had three options: two mile, four mile, and a fun run for little kids. All of my kids did the two mile option.

Right before the race Jareesh talked to me about how he had been thinking about the plane ride for weeks and told me how bad he wanted it. At practice he was the second fastest kid so I didn’t expect him to win. He asked for advice and I told him, to run as fast as he could and never to look back until he was at the finish line. I told him I would be waiting at the finish line for him.

So he was the first kid to cross the finish line, and the first thing he said was ‘Did I win? Did I win?’ I was so excited to tell him he did! The best feeling I have ever felt was that day when I saw all my kids cross the finish line.

Kaneesha was the girl who ran the fastest time – she was a 15 year old girl who went to Huntsville High School.

The next Saturday was the most amazing feeling I have ever experienced.  With the help of Jason Miller and Rohan we were able to give the kids their first ever flying experience. The look in those kids’ eyes was the most amazing feeling after they landed after flying for an hour. They were so happy and mesmerized by what had happened that day. Not only did Rohan give them a flight but he allowed them to fly the plane! This is by far the most rewarding thing I have ever done for my community, and this is just the beginning.

My friend Jason Miller and I are planning on getting in touch with someone at the Atlanta office and we are going to do a race in Atlanta in the spring. He also wants to do something with kids and flying in Atlanta.

This was the best experience – it allowed me to be my possibility of friendship, trust, fearlessness, and new adventures.

People began to see me for not as the past told me I was but as my new possibilities say that I am.

This was the most profound project I have ever done in my life. I learned so many things that will allow me to make a difference in other peoples lives.

Special thanks to Larry Grayson my coach Betzalel and everyone in my Self-Expression and Leadership class – you each are amazing powerful individuals who can impact the world!

Ty Cucarola

You can see more about the event in this coverage from WAAY Television.

Children’s Holiday Magic Brings Joy to Sick Kids

According to LGBT Weekly, the project Jeff Gelder created in Landmark’s Self-Expression and Leadership Program to bring joy to sick kids has entered its 11th successful year, delivering more than 7,000 holiday CDs to children’s hospitals. This year’s CD is an original holiday tale with songs and stories from recognized music and voice talents.

In addition to the CD, there are variety of activities also part of this year’s project, including a CD distribution event at Rady Children’s Hospital in San Diego, where there will be live holiday singing and CDs will be delivered directly to patient’s rooms. Read more about this year’s festivities and Gelder’s non-profit in LGBT Weekly and watch the video.

Home Stretch Helps Homeless, Expresses a Passion for Music

LSD - home stretchBahareh Khademi says she has found a way to give back the gift that music gave her. As the only Middle Eastern person at her school growing up, the study of music made her feel at home and opened new doors for her. She won the lead role in her school’s production of West Side Story, and went on to be a classically trained soprano, as well as a songwriter and wedding singer.

According to an article in the St. George & Sutherland Shire Leader, Khademi, now 26, was thus inspired to have her project in Landmark’s Self-Expression and Leadership Programme be a fundraising concert for the Australian Children’s Music Foundation, which took place November 21st. The foundation assists both disadvantaged and indigenous youth in rural communties and juvenile justice facilities across Australia.

“I wanted to bring together my passion for music and my desire to help the homeless,” said Khademi.

Reading Carnival in Bryan

LSD - reading carnivalA ‘reading carnival’ and literacy day came to Bryan, Texas on November 10th, as a result of a project created in Landmark’s Self-Expression and Leadership Program. The event, which took place from 2-6pm in Sue Haswell Park, featured literacy-centered games and activities for children in Kindergarten through 4th grade, in carnival style tents.

A ‘storytelling tent’ featured a story from a professional storyteller, while ‘story circle tents’ featured books read aloud, with different books in different tents catering to different age groups. Another tent featured instruction in creating poetry and fiction, and general presentations featured story and poetry readings and recruitment of literacy volunteers. Read more at B/CS Reading Carnival.

My Big Fat Greek Contribution

LSD - plomariWhen Sofia Vatos took part in Landmark’s Self-Expression and Leadership Program in Melbourne, Australia, she knew she wanted to contribute to her family and the town many came from, Plomari, on the island of Lesbos in Greece. Since the European Union’s austerity measures began, the once beautiful town began to crumble.

Vatos set up My Big Fat Greek Contribution to raise money for the town, and held a dinner and dance on May 17 as a fundraiser. She plans to visit the town this summer to help a volunteer group maintain the village.

Here’s more about the project in Vatos’ words:

When I go to the island of Lesvos to visit the village of Plomari, I am so proud of my heritage and the privilege of my life. I created this community fund raising charity event for the village as I really care about its future and want to honour its people.  When I first started the project I thought, who is going to care about raising money for a village that only I care about. I had no idea how to make this happen, all I knew is that I wanted it to be successful, especially given the current crisis in Greece. I was unstoppable.

Thankfully my sister was enrolled and contributed so much in so many ways. I walked the streets during the day and at night and shared my event to the world and why I am doing it.  I had plenty of people say ‘yes’ and ‘no’. Those who said yes, I requested payment to secure their booking immediately. This was new. In the past, I would have left it unsettled and unconfirmed, with unsuccessful results.  I would make up excuses as to why I would not ask and cover up. I had a breakthrough in being straight with people and being genuine, instead of my internal dialogue running the show.

Over 126 people attended the dinner dance.  Over 40 sponsors contributed door prizes and raffles.  We raised just under $5,000, which I will take to Greece with me this year to spend it on community amenities.  My parents are so proud of their daughters standing to make a difference for their village. I will forever recommend the Self Expression and Leadership Program.  It took me on a journey, where I have never been before. Read more at